To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

Love yourself. Love the things that make you you.Your values and talents and　memories.

If you love yourself, you can jump into your life from a springboard of self-confidence.

If you love yourself, you can say what you want to say, go where you want togo.

The world can be a tough place, and some of the billions of people out there　will try to knock you down. Don’t join them. Do things that make you proud, then take pride in what you do. And in who youare.Who are you anyway? What makes you you? How are you like your siblings and　neighbors and friends?

If you were your own secret admirer, what would you most admire?

“My great mistake, the fault for which I can’t forgive myself,” Oscar Wildewrote, “is that one day I ceased my obstinate pursuit of my ownindividuality.”

Keep pursuing your individuality. Keep being yourself. Becoming yourself. It　can be comforting to dress and act like everyone else.But it is grander to be different, to be unique, to be you.

I’m the only me in the whole wide world.

There is always one true inner voice. Trust it. Sometimes it’s hard to know who you are and what you want and whom you likeand why you like that person.The answers change because you’re changing.

Growing.But deep inside, you are you.You were you as a baby, you were you as a kid,and you are you right now.“Let me listen to me and not to them,” wroteGertrude Stein.It makes sense to consider the advice and opinions of other people. But don’t let their noise drown out your inner voice.


爱自己是一场毕生浪漫的开始。

爱自己。热爱一切使你之所以成为你自己的事物。你的价值，你的才能，你的回忆。

你的服饰，你的鼻子，你的悲伤。如果你爱自己，你就能在自信的跳板上跃入生活。

如果你爱自己，你能畅所欲言，所向披靡。

世界是冷酷的，成万上亿的人试图在竞争中超越你。别和他们一样。

做能让你自豪的事情，然后为你所做的事情自豪，为你自身感到骄傲。那么你究竟是谁呢？

是什么使你成为你自己呢？你和你的兄弟姐妹、左邻右舍又有着怎样的相似点呢？

如果你赞赏自己的秘密，哪个部分又是你最为欣赏的？

“我最大的错误，我无法原谅自己的错误，”奥斯卡?王尔德写道：“就是某天我停止追逐自己的个性。”

追求你的个性。做你自己。成为你自己。同旁人一样地穿衣、举止是件容易的事情。

但更伟大的事情在于做到与众不同，独特如你自己。

广阔世界，唯我是我。

总有一个真实的内在的声音。听从它。

有时很难想明白你到底是谁，你想要什么，你喜欢谁，你为什么喜欢这些人。你在变，在成长，答案也在变。

但在内心深处，你就是你。从婴儿到孩童，到现在，你就是你。“让我听从自己的，而不是他们的意见。”葛楚德?史坦如是写道。

你可以参考别人的建议和观点。但是不要让他们的意见盖过你内心的想法。